Saturday, November 13, 2010

true friend

Have you ever think about friend is? If you have, what kind of friend in your mind. There are so many kind of friend in this world. But among them, there is a kind of friend wich is the best than other called “TRUE FRIEND”. You will find it difficulty in joyful moments. True friend will come to you, not only when you are happy but they will stay by your side any time you need it. They will never ignore you … and will keep the promises that she or he has made to you. They will always give you support to be some one who has a brave hearth to face the world. I have a view of my true friend is called sXe six, they are Maya, Xani, Yunita, Ulva, Dewi dan me. I get them when I was in Malang Univercity.
But you have to be careful with such kind off pretenders. They seem to be nice, always help you and accompanying you whenever you want. But in the end, they will dump you when their job is over. And if you find these kinds of pretenders, just prepare your self that you will be hurted someday. I wish no one of you would find these kind of people. But I do hope that you will find your true friend as soon as possible. And when you find it don’t let them go because they are difficult to find. Beside that, you know that a true friendship will last until the end of time.
We all have friends. A lot gets talked about friendships. Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true friend. What kind of relations do friends share? When can we call a friend a true friend, and when can our friends take us as their true friend. After a romantic relationship, friendships are the most important relationships we can have. Though all of us have family and distant family, most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and inspiration. How do we define a relation that can be called as one of true friendship?
The very first sign of a very good friend, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies. You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak about everything in our mind without worrying about what our friends will think. We are sure that they will take our talk in the spirit it was made. We are unguarded and open with friends in our talk.
A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to the extent possible by him/her. Nothing will remain unturned. A mother is a true friend of her children. If we share such relations with an adult we can say that we are true friends.
A true friend makes no excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with you whenever you need him/her. In your hour of desperation, a true friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who is like mother, as I said earlier. Instead of having hundreds of good friends, if you have a true friend, treat yourself lucky. If you can also become a true friend of someone, you will be blessed, because it is much easier for all of us to expect but very difficult to give. Be a true friend yourself first.

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